Cameron Alden

Q. Tell us a little about yourself and your lifestyle.

A. I'm a Suffolk County Legislator, in my 4th term, which means that I have served for 8 years. In addition I am also an Attorney. I'm single and live in Islip. I enjoy the beach, traveling, woodworking and restoring antique automobiles. I play golf and enjoy working out in the gym a few times a week. My work day can begin at 7:30 AM and go until late evenings and it is a 7 day a week job.

Q. Describe how you found your cancer, were you on 'watch' or did it sneak up on you?

A. I had built a planter and when I lifted it up it hit me in my right breast, and I felt a sharp pain. When I touched myself I felt a lump about the size of a nickel next to my right nipple. As a male non-smoker and non-drug user I was not at all aware that men could have breast cancer.

Q. Following diagnosis, what helped you cope the most, and gave you strength?

A. My belief in God gave me the fundamentals to use to try to accept my cancer and then my belief gave me the strength to go though the surgery and then the treatment and the recovery period.

Q. How has breast cancer changed your outlook on life?

A. I feel that I appreciate life a lot more. I tend to not sweat the little things, try to be a lot more tolerant of others and sensitive to their feelings. Cancer teaches you that there are no guarantees in life. Cancer can happen to you or anyone when you least expect it. Live everyday to it's fullest, respect those around you and know how precious and valuable life is.

Q. What advice would you give to someone who is newly diagnosed with breast cancer?

A. Reach out for as much love and support as possible, including mental counseling. Seek out the best doctors and develop relationships with people whose judgment you can trust. In the end, seek all advice available but rely on your own judgment for decisions. In addition, here is a prayer that I find provides great comfort: 'God grant me the strength to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.'